The Etiquette Guide

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01The Ancients2016010420210724 (R4)The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 1: The Ancients
In the 3rd Millennium BC, Ptah-Hotep wrote the Maxims of Ptah-Hotep. He addressed such crucial issues as rules for courteous debate, proper etiquette for a guest and advised strongly against gossip.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 1: The Ancients
In the 3rd Millennium BC, Ptah-Hotep wrote the Maxims of Ptah-Hotep. He addressed such crucial issues as rules for courteous debate, proper etiquette for a guest and advised strongly against gossip.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

022016010520210807 (R4)The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 2: The Elizabethans
Fabritio Caroso's Nobilita di Dame (1600) tells us all we need to know about to how behave at court. Caroso writes about the right way for gentlemen to approach the King or how a lady should greet a superior.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 2: The Elizabethans
Fabritio Caroso's Nobilita di Dame (1600) tells us all we need to know about to how behave at court. Caroso writes about the right way for gentlemen to approach the King or how a lady should greet a superior.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

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The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 3: The Middling Classes
During the 18th century the growing middle classes needed a guide to behaviour. The Rudiments of Genteel Behaviour defined much of our modern understanding of politeness including maintaining restraint around overt opulence.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 3: The Middling Classes
During the 18th century the growing middle classes needed a guide to behaviour. The Rudiments of Genteel Behaviour defined much of our modern understanding of politeness including maintaining restraint around overt opulence.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 3: The Middling Classes
During the 18th century the growing middle classes needed a guide to behaviour. The Rudiments of Genteel Behaviour defined much of our modern understanding of politeness including maintaining restraint around overt opulence.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

042016010720210821 (R4)The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 4: The Americans
Britain and America aren't just divided by a common language, but also by manners. In 1883, Walter R. Houghton published American Etiquette and Rules of Politeness, defining the way modern America behaves.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 4: The Americans
Britain and America aren't just divided by a common language, but also by manners. In 1883, Walter R. Houghton published American Etiquette and Rules of Politeness, defining the way modern America behaves.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

052016010820210828 (R4)The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 5: Modern Manners
The making of manners in cyberspace. How to respond to emails without causing offence, and what is acceptable on social media. In the world of `netiquette`, we don't have facial expressions, gestures, and tone of voice to help, so rules need to be applied.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries

The mark of a civilised country is to know what it is to be civil. But what if you don't know? Across the ages, social commentators have written guide books to tell the uninitiated how to do the right thing at the right time in the right way.

And it's not just snobs that have published guides - the great Renaissance theologian Erasmus took time out from arguing with Luther to instruct children how to behave in company.

Nor is it yet another invention of Victorian England. Five thousand years ago, Ptah-Hotep set down on papyrus the rules of behaviour that all wise men should convey to their sons.

Episode 5: Modern Manners
The making of manners in cyberspace. How to respond to emails without causing offence, and what is acceptable on social media. In the world of `netiquette`, we don't have facial expressions, gestures, and tone of voice to help, so rules need to be applied.

A Whistledown production for BBC Radio 4

An examination of the way manners, mores and etiquette have evolved over the centuries.

An examination of the way manners and etiquette have evolved over the centuries